Don’t be this guy…Updated!

This is Kevin Samuels in 2009.

This is Kevin Samuels today… a self-labeled relationship expert and luxury lifestyle guru… and a whole ass clown. A whole one. Red nose and all.

There is nothing cute about him… yesterday or today. Let’s keep this in mind.

I’m sure we have all heard this rant to the woman who called into his podcast saying she wanted a man making six figures because she was a successful woman. He went on to roast her about being old, average looking, with a 13 year old, saying no high earning man… which coincidently makes him above average… wants an average woman and unless she was willing to date an average man, she would “die alone!” I listened and I wanted to fight him in his face for her.

Look… Kevin Samuels has no authority to talk about a woman’s looks or what above average men like… scroll up, look at that picture again. If he can be “honest” with old girl, we can be honest with him. But first let me just say this. Six figures is not billionaire status, be clear. Most of the men and women I know make six figures, and most of the men I know are not clowns either. These men love the gamut of women… because they are different men with different preferences. Some of them like curvy women, others like athletic women, some like em short others tall, some like em a bit younger or a bit older… there is no standard woman in terms of attractiveness or desire.

Furthermore, a woman is entitled to whatever standards she sets for herself, and reserves the right to bend and change those as she moves through the world… but on her own terms. Those preferences we hold closest on to, other than basic character traits, which don’t define someone as an emotional, mental, or spiritual being, but instead define them by their aesthetic or physical shell most likely lead us to miss out on good men or women. But we still have a right to our preference and standards. Men and women. There are very few things a man wants more than a woman, and his money and clothes and home and car are all objects of security meant to attract women. So yes, women, across the board, are attracted to stability and security. That shouldn’t change because of where some clown believes she falls on the looks rating scale. But then too, men who are married tend to be more successful and more wealthy. A man who findeth a woman findeth a good thing says the Lord.

I saw many posts saying there was truth to what he said… mainly by men. Be better than him, please. Don’t co-sign this wack ass, insecure, stupid shit. First of all, rating women on some scale is played out… unless you want to be rated on the length of your penis, the girth of your wallet, and the size of your credit score. Those things alone define a good man just as much as a woman’s looks alone define a good woman. Sure… we should all be attracted to our mate. But what that looks like is different for all of us and not based on some ratings scale from eighth grade. A man who comes into a woman’s life should be ready to provide and protect. A woman should come ready to provide peace and refuge. That doesn’t mean he needs to be a billionaire, but he should be stable. That doesn’t mean she needs to be a supermodel, but she should be her best. Stellar looks are icing on the cake… but the cake can stand alone.

Insecurity is a mofo. It will lead you to break down other people to their lowest common denominator just to make yourself look good… but it’s not long lasting. It doesn’t matter how far you’ll go to dead someone else’s shine to shine brighter, your shit will stay dim. You see only those of us that are good to each other ever truly become stars. This guy is posed up on Instagram and posting YouTube videos like he’s some sort of guru, and no one ever heard of this clown until World Star Hip Hop posted his rant. The same sight that posts NSFW photos of reality stars is what catapulted this fool to internet stardom… and we’ll forget about him soon. But that woman he spoke disrespectfully to will remember being put down and having it broadcast across the net, forever, in the name of honesty. Honesty is not based on opinion.

But my bet is that Kevin Samuels, despite claiming to have to fight young women off with a stick, doesn’t like women. His shtick is too familiar. There is a whole subculture in Atlanta where homosexual men marry and date young, attractive, childless, and connected women so they can rise up the corporate ladder and join Black networks under the guise of being a straight man. The DL. I suspect he is apart of that subculture. He is trying to make a name for himself, not help people. He puts down women and their want to be with stable “high value” men, and then gives men value based on their wallet and penis size. First of all, how does he know what penis size is desirable to women? Second, WHAT MAN asks other men that, that aren’t interested in men? I’ll wait… thought so. Bottom line, he hates women, and I don’t think it is because he dislikes women’s standards. You usually hate, not to be mistaken with dislike or disagreement, what you most want to be. Facts. You don’t get to roast sistas because you want to be a Queen. He’ll never be royal.

A perusal of his YouTube videos shows he thinks late blooming men, which he must see himself as… see 2009 photo above… are the best because they reach their full potential financially and physically in their late 30s and 40s and can finally attract the type of women they want. But be clear, those men were likely taken care of and coddled by hat he considers “average” women prior to their come up… and now are too good to consider those women as mates. I call bullshit. A Hermès belt and a rented Bentley on the weekends does not make you the cream of the crop.

Listen… Kevin Samuels and his particular brand of women hatred, telling women they aren’t young enough, attractive enough, or small enough to get a man who makes six figures or more is a certified crime. Especially coming from a man who is espousing this toxic garbage as a means to make himself look and feel better. You can’t be a whole two trying to tell a whole five she isn’t cute enough. Furthermore, I suspect the inly thing in his closet aren’t Gucci loafers and Tom Ford pants. You are truly telling on yourself beloved.

Originally posted 12/20/2020.

Update: Grand Opening. I just looked at my wrist. I got time today. It’s May of 2021, and the comments on this post are nothing short of hilarious. First, Black people who love and honor our rich history are descendants of Kings and Queens, and are therefore royalty. Any attempt to discredit that is ignorance… read a book.

Second, my qualifying him as a woman hating possible homosexual is not an attack on his sexuality as much as exposé. Being homosexual is not a bad thing. He very well may be standing straight up, walking in a straight line, or straight outta Compton… but he CLEARLY doesn’t like women. Dude is either upset most women want nothing to do with him and didnt want him in 2009 when he was “low value” or he is insecure about his true identity. Men who are interested in women don’t fight women off with sticks. Men who are interested in women don’t put down women especially about their opinions on another man. Men who love and appreciate women, may have a preference in a partner, but believe the feminine is always beautiful and sacred. They speak to women with tenderness even when they need to school them. He isn’t giving lessons, he’s giving out insults by the pound. That screams insecure, unhappy, and desperate. It also reeks of toxicity, man bags, and male waist trainers.

But moreover, these attempts to insult my writing because you disagree is cowardice bullshit. Feel free to disagree. Your disagreement does not sway my opinion, but if it is respectful then I can engage. I meant what I wrote, and I wrote what I meant. My relationship status does not determine my value, my character does. So all that lonely, single as a dollar bill venom is wack. Men who put down women, hate women. Facts. So you come in these comments calling me names because I gave you my opinion on a man that presents as a horrible person … a man you likely don’t know, it’s clear what your issue is. You feel attacked because you subscribe to this archaic, caveman, superficial garbage, and you are projecting your lonliness and your bitchassness. I hope you carry tampons in your manbag, because you must be bleeding. I cut HANs with metaphors and similes.

Here’s the bottom line. I don’t care what your preferences are, high value, middle value, or low value. I really could care less. But I will always stand up for Black women first, and Black people. I don’t care what color you are, if you speak to brothas and sistas like they are non-valuable because they have reached a certain age, are no longer welterweight, have children, don’t have the proper size wallet or penis… you subscribe to the colonized way of measuring a partners worth… and I might check you on it. I also will call it how I see it. Keep commenting… thanks for reading! Now back to my high value man who loves me and treats me like the Queen I am. Grand Closing.

76 comments

  1. Dee · January 8

    Glad I’m not the only person who thinks he’s gay. Not that it matters but he’s a queen and he’s only going to make dating more difficult for the men and women he mentors.

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    • Andrew · March 26

      wtf u need help ur insulting his sexual preferences because hes helping women tf????

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      • karyn deshields · March 31

        No one is insulting his sexual preference.

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      • Jeremy · July 18

        You must be fat bad ugly lmaoooo ain’t nobody read that garbage lol

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      • karyn deshields · August 1

        👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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    • Desh · April 1

      So the only way for you to attack him, is his sexuality, but his message though… I feel you’re triggered.

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      • karyn deshields · April 23

        You should see a therapist, cuz you are all in your unjustified feelings.

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    • darkj · April 1

      LMFAO @ you Dee….a typical black woman using typical shaming tactics aimed at black men! Whenever a black man tells one of you alleged black queens that you don’t live up to “his” standards…all of a sudden you female clowns cop an attitude and immediately go for the low-hanging fruit type of insult & try to insinuate that the black man must either be gay or down low because he does not want to deal with you! Here’s the reality: 85% of you so-called Nubian queens are overweight or obese (blackdemographics.com) the majority of you have multiple children by multiple men that you chose to NOT marry, but yet you want a man of means to raise your kid by another man, the majority of you are not feminine, you have masculine personas,(you act like men) but yet a black man is supposed to put up with you? Yeah right!

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      • Steph · May 16

        “Chose not to marry” – were these me offering marriage? You act as if men as children with zero power. If a child is born out of wedlock then that is the fault of BOTH parents.

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  2. John · January 22

    Highly disagree with this article. The whole point of his show is to help women. Some women want a certain kind of man but don’t take into consideration what they want. A 5’8 man working at KFC w/ a beer belly will never pull Lori Harvey and a women thats a 5 and aged 39 will never pull a hvm. Its just that simple. Men like what they like. And Black women need to stop being selfish and start being realistic.

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    • karyn deshields · February 27

      If you aren’t a Black woman you should refrain from telling us who and what we should be. Thanks.

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      • Desh · April 1

        I feel like you are more attacking the person than his ideas. The reality is based on statistics he’s using. You can’t call bullshit a website made from black people and FOR black people. The average of black man making 6 figures is even lower than I thought. That said, the 1% of men would not be typically attracted to a 35 year old women with 1/2/3 kids, if he had the choice. This is just the reality of the dating market.

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      • Mihai · July 22

        “If you aren’t a Black woman you should refrain from telling us who and what we should be. Thanks.” Sorry, honey, but by that (double) standard you shouldn’t dare tell Kevin who and what he should be, let alone others, you aren’t a man to tell how men should be like, so please refrain.

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      • karyn deshields · August 1

        You are funny. Comic worthy. Reading is fundamental sir. Had you comprehended what you read, you would notice I never told him what or who he should be. I simply stated my opinion on his incorrect and misogynistic characterization of women… Black women particularly. Back up.

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    • Linda · April 17

      The garage he vomits about men and women ignores the most important thing, character. People who have common values can make good mates. We all should strive to be our best. But this fool think that because he wants his version of a “perfect” woman , he better not get sick or suffer in some way that he need love. The woman he wants would leave his ass the moment he he is less than 100%.

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      • Linda · April 17

        “garbage”

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    • Nicademo · May 12

      Absolutely bro. Got alot of beta males here who been simps so long. I was raised by alpha father, all my uncles are alphas, i mean in some ways he can be a little harsh, that I wasn’t raised to be that harsh, but what hes saying is facts , and truth fucking sucks. 8-9% of the population make 6 figures a year, and its not surprising if most people you know would be somewhere around there, me too.. because anybody with half a brain who is also in that range surrounds himself with other who are in the same level. Maybe you know a select few high value men who date ogres and trolls with a basketball sqaud of kids, thats great its the minority. For the less attractive high value men overweight etc i see for the most part date women way above their league on the looks scale. This whole article just fuckin stinks of somebody who has beta tendencies and views. My dress style is like his kind of , my demeanor is similar, even before i knew of him, and im a 9-10 looks depending on the female , my financial situation is similar if not better. I judge women heavily on their value , their looks and cat just doesn’t interest me when i have 67 DM’s i dont even read with half of them younger woman 18-20, and mostly very very attractive, and i can convince these creatures to do some crazy shit. So i hold women to a very high standard, and 95% of them have shit to offer but baggage and issues i dont have to deal with in life that an average mfer would be okay with.

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    • Steph · May 17

      Why do people as if “High Value Man” is an objective criteria? What is high value is different for everybody. I don’t think earnings make a man high value personally but to others that would be important.

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    • Steph · May 17

      Also what do you mean “black women need to stop being selfish”? Selfish how? By not dating men they aren’t interested in? How is that “selfish”?

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  3. Pam · January 27

    I just watched his videos and came to EXACT same conclusion as your article states. Women haters are getting entirely too much attention 🙄

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    • Andrew · March 26

      hes not a women hater hes trying to help women who hate men but they have no argument whether why and if some have a valid argument he shuts that shit down with a valid argument

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      • karyn deshields · March 31

        He definitely hates women he believes are not attractive. It is not hating a man to have standards.

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      • Steph · May 17

        How is he trying to “help” women? By denigrating them? Belittling them? Telling them to settle for any dude that will have them irrespective of how attracted they are to him?

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  4. Tom Jenkins · January 28

    So I’m what he THINKS he refers to as a “high value man”, but the twist is….he’s absolutely delusional and out of his league with his rhetoric of what he believes that is, and I am totally disgusted with his interpretation of what he thinks highly educated, wealthy and successful men like myself think of women, especially our beautiful black queens. He is the problem…steer clear away from his ‘advice’ ladies and especially men, he is not qualified nor is he skilled at anything except on how to get divorced….twice…allegedly!

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  5. Candice Johnson · February 2

    If the woman rates herself a 5…why y’all mad that he called her average… he just presented her words back to her

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    • karyn deshields · February 27

      Not mad at being average. Not mad, just disturbed that he thinks he is some expert on what makes a woman desirable.

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  6. King · February 3

    The author must be single as a dollar bill…

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    • karyn deshields · February 27

      Ohhhhh you make this too easy. So, first, that’s a cute attempt at a diss, but being single is not negative. I won’t allow you to give ANY woman the impression that it is on my watch. So let me school you on the art of clowning a mofo.
      Being a weak ass man who feels the need to put down a woman’s assumed relationship status when he is clearly the President of the HAN Foundation … that’s NEVER what’s hot tho! Any man with any good sense would recognize that what you just read, agree or disagree, is Queen $hit! Queens tend to have… in no particular order… stock options, a pristine pocketbook (thats coochie not Coach), plaques on our wall, and BOSS underneath our name… real dope girl shit! Women most men covet. Let him find out she’s single… its on. But you, you shun that prize. Cute.
      Most men who have time to put down women, hate women. Men who adore and love women, tend to stand up in that proudly. Bring that hate shit around here, get shitted on. Period.
      Anyway, my time is up, I got other more pressing issues to tend to, but my man said he’d gladly continue this conversation with you.

      Imagine… a clown calling himself King.

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      • ashely webster · March 26

        ok first of all ur names karen for a reason and second of all im a women and i have the same opininon and if u get mad that i made fun of ur name u made fun of this guys name so wtf and this guys name is just a name u didnt have to make fun of his name or call him names karen

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      • karyn deshields · March 31

        Who tf are you and why are you trolling my blog. Don’t like what I write… don’t read it. And my name is Karyn because my mother named me that and you can kick rocks for making any other insinuation. You are a woman, I’m glad you know your sex… but you don’t know shit about me, commas, or periods. Any woman that agrees with this man putting down women based on age and having children and his opinion of their looks is a) not the kind of woman I write for and b) not the kind of woman whose opinions I consider. So in the future, if you want to get educated, just know I’m the professor and you, my dear, ain’t even on the waitlist in my class.

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      • Joyceln · April 4

        But you’re not a queen… I don’t know where so many black women get away with giving yourself this label which over inflates your ego and gives you an unrealistic perception of reality. Statistics crush opinions and the statistics show that you aren’t Queens or more of us would have Kings. Something has gone wrong somewhere because we are the most free we’ve ever been in history but we are the most unhappy, most unsatisfied and the most lonely we’ve ever been. Stop being so big headed and bring yourself down from that self proclaimed throne. We wonder why our own men seek out other races, because loud mouth arrogant women such as yourself are becoming all too common. You are beautiful and deserve a chance at love… you don’t need to be put on a pedestal (Queen), we as black people go through enough from other races we don’t need to destroy our community with pride because you refuse to accept reality.

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  7. Val · February 7

    You sound like a PhD.

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    • drewrynewsnetwork · February 28

      Ph.D is good. 🙂

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  8. Elle · February 14

    I picked up on his ‘closet contents’ the first/last/ only time I saw him on YouTube. It’s clear that he hates black women because he’s not one.
    #Don’tHateMeBecauseYouAintMe

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    • darkj · April 1

      LMFAO….thats why you are going to die alone! LOL

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      • W · May 5

        Everyone dies alone.

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      • Steph · May 17

        Everybody dies alone. What’s wrong with that?

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  9. kyle morton · February 15

    Wow the KS hate is real…saying is true, ” …if you don’t have haters you ain’t trying hard enuff”

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  10. kyle morton · February 15

    Wow, the hate for KS is real. Ol sayin is true, ” …if u don’t have haters, you ain’t trying hard enuff.”

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    • karyn deshields · February 27

      He hates women so I hate him. He should get a penis and leave women alone.

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      • Sarah · March 26

        Yall dont say this to Steve Harvey tho. All he saying is to be the best version of yourself. If you want a man of certain values what are you as a woman bringing to the table as well.

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      • karyn deshields · March 31

        Who is ya’ll?

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      • darkj · April 1

        LOL @ Karyn….the old angry masculine black woman alert! he doesn’t hate women he’s just letting obese, masculine, multiple babies by multiple men overly educated delusional black women know that what they are doing is not working. Its funny how black women think they are the only race-gender of people on the planet who are above critique…..TFOH!

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      • karyn deshields · April 9

        LOL @darkj… an idiot.

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      • John ikeson · April 3

        Lol you’re really pulling the “he must be gay” card? If you’re so “confident” in your views you should call into his show and have a public conversation with him. That would seem like a better approach for a “strong black queen” such as yourself instead of this cowardly route of gay shaming on a random blog post.

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      • karyn deshields · April 9

        I am not gay shaming, stop it!

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  11. Lawrence · February 16

    A woman telling women what men want.
    This is the problem, you don’t know what you are talking about.
    His delivery may be frank, but it is the truth.
    Deal with it.

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    • karyn deshields · February 27

      Oh I know what I’m talking about. I’m not telling women what men want, I’m telling women that REAL men want REAL women. You deal with what you read or … don’t read it. FOH

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      • Mike A · May 20

        “I’m not not telling women what men want”

        Proceeds to say “I’m telling women that REAL men want REAL women”
        1) You literally just said that “REAL” men want “REAL” women
        2) Thereby you are a woman telling women what men want, at least “real” men anyway
        3) Who are you to say what a real man is and what a real man wants

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  12. Kiiii · February 24

    It doesn’t matter, BUT! The man is clearly gay. Take a long hard look and a long hard listen. The fact that straight men actually listen to him is hilarious. 2 failed marriages. The women that seek advice from him know he’s gay as well because no woman would allow a straight man to talk to her the way he does. Think about it…….

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  13. Bella · February 25

    This is a whole mic drop. There is nothing left to say.

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  14. Jonathan Hudson · March 21

    Just had the displeasure of finding out about this poster train wreck yesterday. Your article is bomb and your replies to people in deny are on point, but you knew that and I’m just trying to let the others know what’s up. Based on the language that embarrassing hiccup of a male uses, I would be hvm and I can’t stand the fact that he encourages people to assign a value to others in such shallow ways. Being in a relationship for a decade has taught me that love only cares about what you put into it and money is not one of those things. If there is anyone that thinks that guy knows anything than I would like to point out that you have a problem making proper judgements and should probably handle that issue before you get into anything risky where your poor judgement might actually affect you.

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  15. High value D · April 2

    Toxic bitter woman hating on KS. Lol how many cats do you own?

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    • karyn deshields · May 14

      I got one cat and it only purrs for men with high values not high value men… because wtf is that anyway?!?

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  16. Yes Queen · April 12

    My female cousin actually had the blackacity to tell me to listen to this clown and give me relationship advice. I am a size 10, pursuing a Phd, 40, 1 grown daughter and have had the rich and famous ask me out on dates including members from Goodie Mob, music producers of A list stars, corporate big wigs, and basketball players of all races. I am currently in a great relationship with a wonderful white man who treats me like a Queen with respect and love and it’s mutual. He has no children, never married, wants to get married, 10 years younger than me, making six figures. While my cuzzo has been pining away on a loser man who hasn’t asked her to marry him in the past 15 years. I listened to Bobo the Clown for three minutes and felt as if a demon was talking. I don’t care about his sexuality but he is down low, narcissistic, obnoxious, cruel, and just an all around jerk. Anyone who listens to this idiot hates and blames black women for the world’s problems including my cousin. Thank you for posting this article against this pathetic male humanoid and hopefully more men and women will break away from this toxic relationship wannabe expert. He is nothing but a two cent penny in a five cent suit.

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  17. Brian · April 15

    I’ve watched several of his YouTube videos. He has some valid points and he has some not so valid points. Unfortunately what most people are missing, including Kevin Samuels, is that all of us are at the mercy of thousands of years of human sexual evolution and survival. Everything we do when it comes to who we choose as a partner, having children and how long or short our relationships last have been predetermined by nature long ago. Women choose their partners based on what is best for them at that moment. It’s burried deep in their subconscious. Nature doesn’t care about the who, what and where. All it wants is to allow the human species to survive by any means necessary. Love, infatuation, relationships, marriage, cheating and booty calls are only vehicles nature uses to bring us together in order to procreate. We’re no different from any other living thing on this planet. The only thing that separates us from other species is our conscience. That’s why we’re at the top of the food chain. Kevin Samuels can be rude, condesending and an outright ass-hole most times. Nevertheless, the women he interacts with constantly reinforce the fact that they are truly the keepers of the flame that help the human species survive no matter what decision they make when it comes to their sexual choices. Peace and love.

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  18. Steve · April 20

    Lame article tbh. Ks hater lmao

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  19. Real woke person! · April 20

    This is sad and slanderous… as a woman why you attacking someone that’s calling people out on their nonsensical thinking? Let go of your ego and humble yourself. Anyone here who has some sort of issue with what this man says will end up with a simp OR get a dog and die alone… just saying!

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  20. Johnny · April 20

    I have listened to a number of Kevin Samuels youtube shows because I find it interesting to learn about how the folks who call in view relationships. Samuels is not always wrong in my view but more times than not is fixated on transactional relationships, quid pro quo deals, so to speak. We all are a bit prone to over estimate our usefulness to others but Samuels is to quick to boil everything down to the pocketbook and aesthetics. If you play this game in relationships, you will be empty in the end, for it is just a vapid illusion. His schtik works on Youtube as entertainment but in the end is hollow advice. Whether he is gay or not seems to be an assertion that isn’t necessary or productive, I don’t think you will look back at this part of your article as your finest moment. That being said, it was an interesting read.

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    • karyn deshields · April 23

      Him being gay is not an insult, it is an observation that he is likely a secret homosexual both in denial and ashamed based on his behavior. He cannot possibly love women and want to be with a woman if this is how he articulates about women.

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    • Steph · May 17

      This really articulates what I was thinking.
      KS approaches relationships as transactional. Man wants young, hot woman. Woman wants money. A relationship is an exchange of that. However a lot of people aren’t that shallow and a looking for a values driven relationship. He does not even mention that.

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  21. DJ Young · April 29

    This was an entertaining and hilariously immature temper tantrum from the perspective of a so called “woke black woman”. As a black man that makes over six figures, never been divorced, and married over 15 years (to a black woman) I’m not sure why there is such a mindset dichotomy between black men and black women in modern society. For all the long-lasting married couples I’ve known have pretty much all said the key to their success revolves around the same premise… communication. The lost art of “listening” to others that stand contrary to our position is more common than ever before. It seems as if no one on either side actively listens and only listens to be offended, instead of hearing one another’s issues to meet on common grounds to arrive upon a compromise. Although I personally don’t always agree with Kevin’s delivery, he isn’t trying to vilify black women. He is also not speaking on behalf of ALL black men, he’s speaking from a statistical standpoint and just not sugar coating the ugly truth in any way, shape, or form. He says that black women are capable of making their own decisions and being independent if they want to, but the numbers of unmarried successful, educated black mothers, and broken black homes don’t lie. Another also, is that he talks to his male viewers the exact same way and you did not come to any males defense. Why is it you’re only upset about the females on this blog when he treats both with equality? We all know the truth hurts sometimes, but do we need to emotionally berrate and degrade each other. Ironically Ms. Karin, you are literally emulating the same exact behavior you are claiming Kevin is doing. You’re unjustly attacking this man’s sexual orientation and disseminating false narratives, unless you’ve invented some sort of “homosexual radar” and have proof to substantiate this allegation. If not then two wrongs won’t make it right it and this blog makes you no different than him in the end. I hope you have the chutzpah to take the difficult steps in the right direction for growth and improvement on behalf of your friend at least to converse with your black counterpart face-to-face as opposed to clandestinely slandering his reputation on this platform. Long story short, men need women as equally as women need men on this planet for the sake of our existense so we should do our best to spread love and not hate for one another. This is not an attempt to persuade you or your views in any way, just food for thought from another human perspective. I wish you nothing but love, peace, and prosperity through these egregious times and that you and your loved ones are safe through this pandemic. Peace be with you. ✌🏽

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    • karyn deshields · May 13

      I appreciate your point of view. I however still believe he is a horrible person and therefore, I stand by what I said. You come in love, I come in love. You slander and disrespect Black women, I have words for you. I take no offense to what you said however, snd thank you for reading.

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  22. Tone · May 8

    Agree with some of what u said but I don’t think u are being fair. First u said men who come to blossom late were taken care of by women. My experience is it’s actually the opposite. Women don’t look their way or don’t value them very highly so some men grow bitter and resentful. U say do not judge women on their looks if u don’t want to be judged by your length, girth and credit, well alot of women do use those exact parameters and to say that it’s okay because women are attracted to “security and stability” but that a man judging a women by her looks is superficial is kind of a double standard. With all that being said the man is a tool.

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  23. Nicademo · May 12

    Hahahahhahaha i stopped reading this shit, but after i posted my comment i scrolled back up and read a little more. This article is garbage, and the author is a clown.

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  24. Jermain · May 12

    This is the biggest piece of trash I ever read. The biggest!! In your piece you said should be measure you by your penis, then money then some other bullshit. News flash “Sis” you do. Is this the yellow pages. How did I end up here. (But then too) who the fuck writes like that. If you so bad he holds a platform and you can check it out. You sound like a angry fan but still a fan tho. Yo..the average woman bs I’m pretty sure she is still single AF. Because she is average. You ain’t like he was lying. Aye you have more content for this weak ass counter of the internet.

    This guy comment do you have proof. Nah shut that weak ass shit up. It’s more than likely, or a possibility or he has ways. Where the proof tho? Huh. Y’all are really sad.

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  25. Jon · May 25

    Kevin gets a lot of heat for that “average woman” video. But there’s a huge fact in that video that Kevin’s detractors seem to conveniently overlook. Kevin didn’t call the lady average. On a scale of one to 10 (excluding seven), SHE CALLED HERSELF A FIVE when she wakes up in the morning. And with makeup and accessories, she graded HERSELF as a six. After her self-analysis, Kevin stated the obvious: “Ma’am, you’re average.” He merely used her own evaluation as a basis on why her standards for a companion are unrealistic.

    Secondly, this article disses the idea of a grading scale for women unless a man wants to be graded on his penis size, credit score, and salary. The problem with that statement is that women ALREADY grade men on these and several other criteria. For example, the woman in the “average” video discounted over 85% of men who make less than six figures. Why can’t high-value men have their standards? At the end of the day, they do have standards whether women want to listen or not. As Kevin always says, the men that women want to attract, what do THOSE men want (in general)? That answer can only come from men, not from women who want to tell men what they want.

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